I am a Gen-Xer. They are millennials. Somehow, friendship blurred the generation gap.
Six months ago, I was new to a job and I found myself in a group of 20-somethings who are wise beyond their years. (Because they took me in as their friend! Ha! Kidding.) There were challenges to the job but it is easy to forget the struggles because I had these friends who always had my back. These friends are more than a decade younger than I am yet their maturity is something I want to turn into a pill so that I can just take a dose of anytime in order to breeze through adulthood effortlessly. I think it is safe to say that I am keeping these friends and I think you also need to find your own awesome squad like mine.
Here are the reasons why:
1. They wear their hearts on their sleeves. You know their triumphs and struggles because they know how to express them. They live in authenticity and never apologize for who they are.
2. They will make you feel younger. They radiate youthful exuberance and, like air, you inhale it and fuel yourself with the energy that comes with it.
3. They see the world in a fresh perspective. I often wonder what I was doing when I was their age. I was just trying to eke through life then. They, on the other hand, have plans for their future while dancing to their own beat.
4. They are your backbones when you lose your own. You will feel you can do anything when they are always there cheering you on. My voice cracked and my tears were in the brink of rolling down my cheeks out of stage fright when I was asked to give a speech. When the ordeal was over, they were there still cheering me on.
I remember that we traveled 128 kilometers to attend a wake of a colleague’s brother.
5. They love to eat. And they say that people who love to eat are the best people. Most of our group photos involved eating! They are young so they do not struggle with weight woes. I feel like I do not have to by association. (Ha! excuses, excuses) My peers are now in the chapter of their lives where maladies, cholesterol, etc are slowly sprinkled into the conversation.
6. They are driven. They put in the hours when they need to and smiled their way through it.
7. They are multi-talented. Ask them to host an activity, sing, dance or write a last-minute report, they will do it.
8. They make you feel like you belong to their group. Well, at least until I got carried away and exposed my age. I remember commenting about the time when the airport terminal fee was only Php20 (now it is Php150) during my first plane ride which we immediately realized that they were not even born then. And there was a time when they had to ask me the name of Brad Pitt’s first wife. They are in the generation along with Selena Gomez, Lee Min Ho, hmm okay Darren Espanto while I belong to… hmm never mind. I should stop. Ha!
9. They are brave. One friend got married in her early 20’s which I think is not very common these days. ( Or is it just me who think so? )
10. They are camera-ready. You won’t forget memories because they are well-documented. I swiped many of these photos from their social media accounts. Thanks, Jumegs!
Today marks the 6th month since we became friends. Happy monthsary!!! Stay strong! Lablab!